I think in any friendship circle, someone has a role. The hand holder, the straddler, the non-judgmental friend, the over-supporter and 'best friend to the end' friend.
Me, I'm the realist friend. Meaning, if we been friends for 5 or more years, I don't hold back. I will give you support, but I will be totally, completely honest with you at all times. I have no problems calling my out my friends and I expect them to do the same to me.
If you are screwing up your life, I'll tell you that without a problem. I believe at that point in our friendship, we should be each other mirrors. If I can't keep it real with my friends, then how can we keep the relationship going?
Although I'm the realist friend, I can be considered harsh at times. I don't sugarcoat too much, I'll tell it like it is. Sometimes my friends hate me for it, but later they get it. They know that I love them and only want the best for them. In fact, I'm known as Mama Kerney.
So, I like to know what role do you play in group of friends?
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